Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Jackson the two-year-old


It has been an emotional last few months with Jackson and me. As a stay-at-home mom it's been just the 2 of us for 2 years now. I have absolutely loved it all and as excited as I am to have a baby girl join our family, I really do worry a lot about changing the life that we have together. He has grown up so much over the past few months, some good some bad. He is so much more independent now, but is also turning into a toddler who can throw a mean tantrum. He can be the sweetest little boy ever, but also can get frustrated so quickly. At the end of the day, I love him so much and wouldn't change him for the world But before I have this baby, I wanted to record some of my favorite things about Jackson.


He normally wakes up around 7:30 but plays and entertains himself in his crib for about 15 minutes before he starts yelling "mama!" Normally I can hear him on the baby monitor talking to himself, pointing out things in his room, and jumping up and down. Lately he has started "roaring" in his crib too, and every other day he greets me with a big ROAAR when I open the door. He loves being a tough guy and acting like a dinosaur :) Normally he wants to get out of his crib and play with trains for a little bit before going downstairs.

He is obsessed with the garbage truck. It comes by on Tuesday and Friday mornings around 8 am so it's right after he gets up. He has amazing hearing and will stop whatever he's doing when he can hear it coming down the street. Lately we have been running outside and watching it as it goes down the cul-de-sac and the comes back to our house to get the trash. He gets so excited about it and has the biggest smile on his face the whole time.

Tyler and he have been making lots of shakes, smoothies, and protein drinks in the blender lately. Tyler normally has a protein drink in the morning after he gets back from the gym and now Jackson wants to help every time. He helps put in all the ingredients, presses the button, and loves having his own little cup and drinking with his daddy. I'm not a huge fan of the protein drinks myself, but I'm glad Jackson likes them so much! The kid has a banana every single day for breakfast, he is obsessed. You'd think he would grow tired of them but he gets a huge grin and says 'mmmm nana'! when he sees us getting it for him. I'm not sure where he picked it up, but recently he has started rubbing his tummy smiling saying 'mmmmmm' when he's excited about a food.

He has started playing outside a lot more. He has a few different balls that he loves to play catch with, he has his hoop and basketballs, and is maybe most obsessed with his golf clubs and balls. He might not have the best form but he loves running around the patio swinging his clubs and hitting the balls. He also has a new dump truck and digger he got for his birthday that he loves to play with outside. Loves looking at all the birds, lizards, and other crazy animals (sometimes gators) we have in our backyard.



He loves all cars, trucks, and any type of vehicle. He can hear an airplane, ambulance, truck, or boat way before I ever will. He stops whatever he's doing and makes his "oh" face for a second, listens to what the noise is - and then exclaims, "a ayyrpane" "a truck" "a booat" or whatever he identifies. They have been widening the major road that we live off of for months now which is a major pain, but he gets such a thrill by driving past all the diggers, dump trucks, and cranes each day. We also live near 2 fire stations and as soon as we are getting close to one, he notices and starts saying "fire truck!" He gets so excited when he sees them each time, but when the station's garage doors are closed and we can't see the trucks inside he just tells me that the fire truck is going "night night."


He is really good with his naptime and bedtime routines. After lunch I will tell him it's time to go upstairs and he will normally head up with no fight at all. He plays with his toys upstairs for a while, and when he's done he'll go right over to his chair. (it might help that i always have his favorite blankie and binkie sitting on the chair to lure him in...) But he will then cuddle up in his chair and I'll read him books. Naturally his favorite books are about trucks, trains, cars, and boats. Right now there are about 10 that we'll pick from but he always wants a few of the same ones each time. When we're done with books I'll carry him to his crib and he immediately closes his eyes and leans back in my arms. It will sometimes take him a while to fall asleep and I'll hear him rolling around for a while - but he rarely if ever cries after i put him in there. This was the main reason I did not want to push him into a toddler bed yet!

The kid is so in love with his daddy. If he hears a noise that makes him realize Tyler is home, he will drop whatever he's doing and run to go see him. He loves having him chase him around the house, drive and crash his race cars, hide in the pillows of our bed, and most recently kick the soccer ball back and forth. I would like to say he's a momma's boy but its not the case. I'm around all the time, but when daddy is home - he gets the biggest grin and completely lights up.




One last thing that I'm particularly happy with is his love and excitement about babies. When we see a baby at church or at the store he gets so excited and loves to point them out. Now we have baby stuff all over the house and he is starting to point out, baby's chair, baby's "night night" aka crib, baby's blanket, etc. We even have the infant car seat base in my car and he knows that that is for baby too. I'm still not sure if he really understands that the "baby" he gives kisses to in mommy's tummy is going to come out and live with him or not, but he's much more aware than he was a few months ago. Just like the word, "daddy" he always says, "baby" with a smile.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Happy Easter

Happy Easter! I really didn't know what to plan for Easter since baby girl was due one week away but luckily we were able to spend the day together at home with no emergency rushes to the hospital!

Saturday night we dyed some easter eggs and Jackson got a kick out of watching the eggs change colors!

Jackson woke up and saw his basket that the Easter bunny left for him - of course he was immediately drawn to the Thomas the train pez dispenser :)


He found some of the eggs that were hidden around the house but honestly didn't get a huge thrill by it. He then noticed some cars over by the couch and decided they looked like more fun than jelly beans. Maybe he just knew he wasn't supposed to eat candy for breakfast :)




We showed him some eggs were hidden outside but he wanted to shoot hoops instead, his dad was so proud haha.


Tyler showed him his presents from grammy and he loved that he got a new swim suit with cars all over it, kinda perfect for the obsessed boy.

The kid likes his routine though, and started asking for breakfast right after that. He and Tyler have been making lots of smoothies and shakes in the blender lately and this is what he requested this morning. He loves to sit on the counter and help put in all the ingredients!

He loves drinking his shake with a straw and always rubs his tummy saying "mmmmm" throughout the process

We got Jackson dressed up in his Easter outfit but he would not look at me and smile for pictures so these are the best I got!


It was so nice that Tyler didn't have meetings before church but he still went early to save us a seat n the chapel. Our ward was split this summer but if you're not there 15 minutes early -- you are back in the hard folding chairs -- not so ideal for a 2 year old and his 39 week pregnant mom.

Jackson and I hung out at home a little bit longer (aka I finished getting ready) and I was surprised that he didn't scream when I put on his new sandals. For some reason he has been freaking out about new shoes - he's growing out of his tennis shoes and it's getting hot here so it's the season for sandals! But no, he had screamed when I put these sandals and some other flip flops on him over the past month. It was an Easter miracle that he wore these for all of church!



He was such a good boy at church and didn't cry or fuss once during the sacrament meeting service. It was nice to enjoy the Easter program and listen to the messages. This was my last sunday without a baby at church for a while!


After church we spent the day together as a family. Last year we had a few couples over for a big Easter dinner and would have loved to do that again but didn't think we could plan anything with baby coming so soon. We didn't have a ham so tyler grilled pork chops and I made the traditional cheesy potatoes, green beans and rolls. I also made a strawberry coconut cake for dessert that turned out great!


Jackson took a mega three hour nap and he stayed up late running around the house with Tyler and we were able to FaceTime with both our families.

It was a great day and end to our last weekend as a family of three...

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Thoughts from a mom of 1

I'm not sure how much longer I will hold that title, be a mother of one child. Each morning I wake up relieved that I didn't go into labor during the night! I'm due in 12 days, Jackson came 7 days early and came really fast, going into labor at midnight and was born at 9:30 am - so that's just how I picture it happening this time too. I've wanted to record my thoughts on several different topics for weeks now, so here goes..

These pregnancies have been very similar and I'm thinking the delivery will be that way as well. The only real difference we're hoping for is not a 9 or 10 pound baby girl! Jackson weighed 9 pounds 2 ounces 1 week early, so we've always been concerned that I could have a 10 pounder if I went past my due date. I am not measuring big with this baby, but I wasn't with Jackson either. I've gained almost exactly the same weight, so all signs point to big baby I think. But then had an ultrasound on Monday to get an idea of how big she is, after all the measurements and calculations from the ultrasound they think she weighed 7 pounds 1 ounce. I don't know how much I really believe that's accurate but they say 90% of the time, it's within 10% so it can't be too off. I still think she'll be close to 8 pounds if she comes early. I did notice that her head was measuring closer to 39 weeks along while the rest of her body was about 37 or 38 weeks so it looks like we'll have another baby with a big head!

Tyler was in Miami for the past 2 days and I was really hoping nothing would happen while he was away. Luckily he is back in Orlando now and won't be more than 30 minutes away for the next 2 weeks. I guess I am "ready" for her to come now but I really hope she waits another week or so. I'm thinking a birthday around April 9 or 10th would be good but who knows!

Jackson and I have had some really fun times in the past couple weeks and its so weird that these are some of our last days together with just the two of us. There have been some difficult moments as he is turning into a 2 year old and his new favorite word is "No" but for the most part, he's been lots of fun this spring.

From Feb 27 - March 23 he had swimming lessons every weekday morning at 9:45. There is a great swim school out here that specializes in infant and toddler swim and survival skills. With so many lakes, ponds and pools all around Orlando - it's pretty normal to have your babies start swimming lessons early. We didn't start until this year, but they have kids as young as 6 months in the pool. It's amazing to watch them learn how to flip over to their back and float in the water which will basically save their life if they fall in water.

Jackson was terrified at first and started crying the second he got in the pool. He kept telling the teacher "all done" after she made him swim with her. But after the next couple days he started loving it. He would swim back and forth between the teacher and the steps to find his toys and he was great at kicking, reaching for the side and holding his breath. I thought it was going to be a great 4 weeks! But then week 2 she started introducing the concept of floating on your back ... and how if you can't get to the side of the pool - that's how you can get a breath. Well he absolutely hated the sensation of being on his back - and still does in fact. So the crying came back and he started to dislike it again. He still likes swimming back and forth like normal, but as soon as she put him on his back he would thrash around and scream. It was really hard for me to watch but I knew it was best for him.

Now that we're done he still hates floating on his back - but he will do it. He knows if he is in the middle of the pool and can't make it to the side, he can turn over on his back and breathe. One day she made him get in the pool with all his clothes and shoes to simulate what it would be like if he fell in the pool accidentally. I was really nervous for this day, but he actually did great. His shoes and diaper weighed him down so much but he kicked extra hard and was able to float just fine. He knew he needed to step it up that day and he did. Now when I go swimming with him luckily he still enjoys the water and loves swimming back and forth from me to the steps. He really doesn't like to float if I'm in the water with him because he figures ... why do I have to do this if you're here to save me?? But I really believe that he knows how to save his life and breathe if he were to fall in the water.

He is still very much obsessed with all cars, trucks and trains. He got a big dump truck and digger for his birthday that he loves playing with outside. Also loves his trains, race cars and other trucks in the house. He really loves books and we read about 10 before his nap and bedtime each day. He would keep going and going if I would let him. Of course his favorite books are the ones about trucks, trains, etc...

Right now he is supposed to be taking a nap but I just heard him "ROOOAR" from his crib. Looks like he woke up a bit earlier than I was thinking! He still does normally sleep really great every afternoon for about 3 hours and sleeps 11 hours or so at night. Hopefully he keeps up these patterns when baby sister comes... But he loves making animal noises - normally only when he sees the animal or we're talking about it, but recently he has been known to throw out a random roar. Not sure what's going on in his mind right now but he's still roaring away in his crib. I think I'll go get that little guy :)

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

He's Two!!

Well ... it happened - Jackson turned 2! It is absolutely crazy to think we've gone from this ...

March 24, 2010


to this...

March 24, 2011


and now to this...

March 24, 2012


in the past two years. But like it or not, I have a two-year-old and I love him with all my heart. Here are some pictures from his big day...

His birthday was on a saturday, but a saturday that tyler had school from 8-5 :( so luckily we got to spend a few minutes together before he left. Jackson loved waking up seeing the balloons and decorations everywhere, he learned the word "present" pretty soon that morning...





Eating breakfast at his new table


We spent the morning at the park



And then he ate his fave lunch - chick-fil-a, at his new favorite table.


after a long 3 1/2 hour nap he was ready for his party!
















Friday, March 9, 2012

The final countdown

We are in preparation mode at our house. Tyler's parents left two weeks ago and since they left we haven't done anything too exciting, just getting things ready! We've been spending our mornings at swimming lessons, running errands, enjoying the perfect weather at the park, going to appointments & shopping and our afternoons getting things done around the house! (more on swimming lessons later, but Jackson is in private swimming lessons every morning for 4 weeks, hoping he turns into an amazing swimmer and is ready for fun in the sun this summer)

Today I'm 35 weeks along, 5 weeks left! But since Jackson was over 9 pounds and a week early, we're pretty sure this little girl will be early as well. I have an ultrasound in a couple weeks to see how big she is and we'll plan on getting induced a bit before my due date if she hasn't come already.


Probably the last prego pic I'll dare to post on this blog - taken today @ 35 weeks.

But we really have been crossing lots of items of my lists. Maybe this is embarrassing but i don't have just one "to-do" list, I have a notebook with several pages of different lists that I'm trying to get done.

List one - Jackson's Birthday Present Ideas

He turns 2 in about 2 weeks and I want to make his birthday special! It's the last few weeks of him as an only child and I think it's appropriate to celebrate his birthday during this time. This kid has been my life for the past two years and that's about to change dramatically. He has to share me with a little girl who demands quite a bit of attention. So hopefully we can spoil him with presents and fun on his birthday so he remembers we love him... I'm thinking trains, cars, books, maybe a trike? basically all things he loves. we've got a new train set ordered and a couple other things but still need to do some shopping :)


List two - Jackson's Party Details

His birthday is on a Saturday so it would be perfect to have a bday party on that day ... except Tyler has school from 8-5. But we decided we're going to do a party that evening, invite some friends, serve dinner and we're going with a Fire Truck theme! I'm having fun getting things ready for that :)


List three - Things to get done around house

Basically this list has always existed and probably will for the rest of forever - but some things I really wanted to get done before this baby comes. The main things we've done have involved the nursery. We got rid of our twin bed, moved the lovesac downstairs and it is now empty and ready to be "baby-ified." We also installed a fan/light in there, painted it pink!, and cleaned out the closet under the stairs (aka got out all the old baby stuff) I feel like just yesterday we put away the swing, infant seat, bumbo, etc.. but now they are back out and ready for action!


List four - Things to buy for house

Another list that has existed since we moved in. But I really want to get a little more work in certain areas of the house that will be affected by baby girl... We finally bought a chair for our master bedroom, since her room is upstairs and our room is downstairs, she'll probably be sleeping with us for the first little while. Now I have a nice comfy chair for all those nighttime feedings. Still need to buy some more furniture for Jackson's room too - since baby sister will be stealing his dresser and changing table. I really want to get some stuff in our basically empty living room - I would love to have that done before she comes! Finally got drapes in our kitchen, but still need some for the living/dining.


Jackson helped us with some shopping :)

List five - Things to do for baby girl's arrival

You know the basics, register at the hospital, pack a bag for hospital, set up her nursery, get our double stroller, organize her closet .. etc etc. I'm due in just over a month and hopefully I can get it all done. Currently her nursery is pink but empty...

It is still crazy to me that I'm going to have 2 kids next month but we are SO excited to meet our little girl :)